As soon a I start to reach orgasm, My hand doesnt do as i say, help?

Im 17 and I recently started masturbation, i'm too small (would that be the correct term?) to use objects inside me and have trouble inserting my finger just now, so i just do clitoral stimulation. But as soon as I start to feel good my hand just stops and i dont seem to be able to continue, I dont know why I've tried searching many help sites but i cant find help that helps me, i've read many of people storys and tips on this site and I just wondered if any of you with more experience than i could help or give me some other ways to try achive an orgasm :).

Dee.

Still having trouble ?

Hey, my name is Chris and im a 17 y/old guy.
do you have msn ?
i would love to talk you through it.
add me:

talk_2_chris@hotmail.co.uk

no webcam or anything. il just tell you what to do while you're doing it.

I had a girl mate that was like this and i gave her a hand with it [literally :P]
anyway my advice is to just stimulate the clitoris until you start breathing heavily and are noticably wet, then slide your finger down your slit towards your ass. Don't insert it yet. Do this a couple of times then lick one of your fingers [to get it lubed] and slide almost half your finger in. repeat this while just brushing your nipples with your other hand to keep yourself stimulated. Then when you are really wet and feel ready, try sliding your whole finger in. twisting it slightly to stimulate all the nerves in your pussy. Then as you are close to cumming, slip the next finger in as well and pump it until you cum. hope this helps.

Sorry to ask for help again.

But, I've been using the toothbrush a lot latley and i seem to like, pee when i reach a peak, like literally big gush of pee like stuff thought its not yellow its more clear but dirty clear but it does smell like pee. I've googled around and they say it "squirting" but most sites say its clear colorless and doesnt say anything about it smelling like pee. Do i just have bladder weakness or am i squirting. and do guys like this? I;ve seen sites dedicated to squirting, but is it like a fetish thing? I dont want to be boyfriendless :( is there a way to stop it?

squirting

your squirting and let me tell you i think it's sexy makes me horny most guys like it some guys dont

u should keep posting how it

u should keep posting how it goes ;)

Thankyou

Thankyou for your advice i followed both yours and some advice from another thread and used an electric toothbrush with a wash cloth and it was a bit weird at first but then i got into it and it felt really good, i'll be doing it more often, so thankyou :D

only-good-bad-thing i just read your post and ill try that, i've always found inseting my finger painful and so i just dont do it, but ill try your advice and see where it goes . Once again thankyou.

I used to be the same way,

I used to be the same way, but now it doesn't hurt at all. I can stick 4 fingers in my pussy and hair bush handles and almost anything else.
just keep sticking one finger in as far as you can get it without it hurting too much, do this every day and youll eventually strech enough to fit two fingers, then three, ect.
it may take a while but if youll strectch yourself its not as painful when guys pop your cherry.

same problem

hey im a 17 yr old girl as well and used to find it difficult to get even a finger in

what i did was i took a couple of hours for myself and before you begin fantasise until you get very wet then rub your clit and gently open your pussy lips with 1 hand and get a finger wet in your juices of use lube and slowly insert a finger even just half way and take it out again do this every so often and it will help

i also used small pens make up brushes toothbrushes long thin things are best to begin with then get thicker things even on the same session alternate between them

i done this and after a few weeks i can now get 2 fingers in me or 3 if im really horny

hope this will help!

try this

hello. Just to let you know i'm a 17 year old guy but i still think i might be able to help ya out. If you like clitoral stimulation used a back massager that vibrates or has that little ball thing that rolls around or something that will keep goin no matter what. My ex-girlfriend had the same problem when she started masturbating too but she used one of those vibrating chair covers and just laid it over the arm of her couch and put her clit on one of the vibrating bumps while stradling the arm. She loved it! But as far as inserting things just start out small and slow, like with a small pen or something and just work your self up from there.

I too am a guy (20 years

I too am a guy (20 years old) but I can help

As the last chap said, use something with vibrations etc to help you keep your pleasure going.

If you want to insert a finger, get hold of some lube - xxxxx or even just Boots the Chemist or similar.

The just keep going from there to bigger things... I presume you are a virgin? When you come to have sex just make sure the guy knows to take things easy, have some time to do some oral and fingers etc before coming to the big moment ;O)


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